How to Get a Raise: Salary Negotiation Tips for Women Attorneys
Sarah Mills | March 4, 2021
It’s no secret that women’s pay lags behind men’s in the legal profession. This disparity exists even when you compare law firms of the same size and practice area in the same geographic location. There are many factors at play, from the persistent belief that women are less likely to be supporting families, to unconscious biases that lead managers to value their female employees' work product less favorably - and the pandemic has only exacerbated the problem. Traditional networking arenas such as the golf course or happy hours have been historically gendered male, which means women are walking into salary negotiations without knowing what their male peers are making. This also creates a resource gap: if women are not in the room when their peers are sharing business connections and client leads, they can’t tap into that network for information and resources.
So if you are a woman attorney feeling underpaid, what can you do? These seven strategies will help you prepare for success in salary negotiations at a new firm or in your current position.
Recognize “second generation” gender bias. We think of gender bias as being external, but it can also play out when women internalize the idea that women are nicer and less aggressive, so they don’t advocate for themselves. Examine your inner narrative - what is holding you back from asking for more?
Hack your own goodwill. Studies show that women are more willing to advocate for others than for themselves. Trick your brain - tell yourself that you are asking for a raise on behalf of a friend or loved one.
Ask for more - every time. Studies show that men are more likely to negotiate an initial offer, which means that a male and female attorney in the same firm, who received the same offer, may nonetheless be starting out on unequal footing. When raises are offered, this dynamic repeats, so the disparity gets worse every year. Don’t let a year go by without asking for a raise.
Do a competitive analysis. Identify similar companies, in your area or similar areas, by size, and by practice area. Present this information to your manager objectively, but hold firm for what you deserve. Glassdoor is your friend!
Internalize a leadership identity. Law firms want to see you taking charge. Get people together for an informal lunch to discuss issues in your firm. Start a committee to address an issue. Convene a meeting to revive a dormant project. Act purposefully towards an end goal with a clear benefit greater than yourself - and then document your successes to share during negotiations.
Make the business case for yourself. Your manager wants to do the best for the business, which means you need to convince them that what you are asking for will benefit the firm. Identify the actions you have taken that have supported business growth, such as increasing efficiency in workflows or bringing in new clients. Make sure you have an accurate assessment of your achievements - hours billed, sales generated, hours spent on pro bono work, articles published, number of speaking engagements.
Prepare in advance. Marshal all of your information - competitive analysis, your contributions and successes, and what you intend to do in the next year - and put it in writing. You may even want to create a brief memo or slide deck to share with your manager. Putting it in writing will help you feel more confident walking into the room.
At the end of the day, remember: the worst case scenario is that your request is denied! Although women are socialized to believe that they shouldn’t negotiate too hard for fear of seeming overly aggressive, most companies will not penalize you for advocating for yourself. (And if they do - run.)
Sarah graduated from Simon's Rock College in 2005 with a BA in Linguistics, then worked in events production for several years before obtaining a JD from New York Law School in 2012. Before joining Lawline, they worked in litigation management. They love working as a program attorney as it combines their legal knowledge and production background. They have two kids, two cats, and they love public transit and rainy days.